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isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/how-to-throw-a-safe-gender-reveal</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 13 Nov 2021 16:00:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6iZi!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F93e3b61d-dde9-4b1a-8714-18db02a15bf5_6000x4000.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6iZi!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F93e3b61d-dde9-4b1a-8714-18db02a15bf5_6000x4000.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" 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restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <strong><a href="https://www.pexels.com/@amina-filkins?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels">Amina Filkins</a></strong> from <strong><a href="https://www.pexels.com/photo/happy-pregnant-couple-caressing-on-bed-5427277/?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels">Pexels</a></strong></figcaption></figure></div><p></p><p>The joy of knowing the sex of your child is something that most parents look forward to. Gender reveals are a fun way to celebrate with friends and family.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>A party is thrown to celebrate the news, often with pink or blue decorations, themed foods and drinks, and gifts for the baby.</p><p>But as these gender-reveal parties grow in popularity, the desire for them becomes more intense &#8211; leading some parents to do things they might regret later.</p><div><hr></div><h4><strong>Dangers of Over-The-Top Gender Reveal Parties</strong></h4><p>It can be difficult to hold back when finding out the sex of your child for the first time, but sometimes parents choose to go overboard with their celebrations.</p><p>This was the <a href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2021/04/23/gender-reveal-explosion-new-hampshire-used-80-pounds-tannerite/7349334002/">case in April this year</a> when a New Hampshire family used 80 pounds of explosives to find out if they were having a girl or a boy.</p><p>Although no injuries were reported, police warned that abusing a highly explosive chemical might result in wildfires or property damage.</p><div><hr></div><h4><strong>Tips on how to make it extra special</strong></h4><p>Although it is tempting to celebrate the news in flashy style, illegal explosives or fireworks are not the way to go. A gender reveal party doesn&#8217;t have to be expensive or outrageous; you only need a few personal touches. Here are some simple yet creative ways to unveil the gender of your baby:</p><p><strong>1. Gender Reveal Cake</strong></p><p>This dessert is a must-have for your gender reveal celebration. You can use store-bought cake or create your own using the secret ingredient of blue or pink cake mix. To reveal the gender, slice the cake in half. You could even decide to have many cake tiers to add to the surprise and excitement as invited guests try to guess the baby's gender.</p><p><strong>2. Confetti Cannon</strong></p><p>This is a simple way to get the gender of your baby revealed. Inside the cannon, have either blue or pink confetti. When you pull the trigger, either blue or pink balloons will explode out of the cannon.</p><p><strong>3. Gender Reveal Cookies</strong></p><p>Another way to find out the gender of your baby is to bake a batch of blue or pink cupcakes. You can decorate them with white frosting and then draw either a pink or blue bow on top, which will be the color of your baby. The best part about this gender reveal is that the guests can eat the cupcakes afterward.</p><p><strong>4. Gender Reveal Lollipops</strong></p><p>To find out your baby&#8217;s gender with this lollipop method, create either pink or blue popsicles. When you have frozen your popsicles overnight, you can begin to decorate them with pink or blue sprinkles. Then, you can ask all your guests to pick a lollipop and see the color that they have chosen.</p><p><strong>5. Balloon Reveal</strong></p><p>You have a huge black balloon packed with confetti inside in the color of the baby's gender. Pink can be used for a girl and blue for a boy. You may either pop the balloon yourself or have family members join in on the excitement.</p><p><strong>6. Pi&#241;ata</strong></p><p>A gender reveal pi&#241;ata is just a box filled with pink or blue balloons and confetti. Hang the pinata from a ceiling or a tree high in the air. Then, when you are ready to discover your baby's gender, you pull the pinata's string and watch as the pink or blue balloons fall out, making the big reveal.</p><p><strong>7. Party Drop Bag</strong></p><p>A gender-reveal balloon drop bag is useful since it may be used as a banner or centerpiece for your celebration. I adore this one because of the vibrant colors, sweet rhyme, and ease of use. A gender-reveal balloon drop bag is loaded with colored balloons. Just like a pi&#241;ata, you pull a string to release and all of the balloons fall out. I&#8217;m sure it will be a lot of fun.</p><p><strong>8. Scratch-off Card&nbsp;</strong></p><p>A simple way to reveal the gender of your baby is with a scratch-off card.&nbsp; There are many templates available online that you can use for this idea. Choose one that fits with the theme of your celebration and edit it to match your style.&nbsp;</p><div><hr></div><p>Gender reveal parties can be a lot of fun if kept simple and safe. They don&#8217;t have to cost you a ton of money, and they don&#8217;t have to be over the top.</p><p>When throwing a gender reveal, just remember to have fun and enjoy yourself with your guests as you celebrate this exciting time in your lives.</p><p>It is important not to lose sight of what&#8217;s really significant &#8211; welcoming a new baby into the world.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[All-Genres Non-Fiction Book Giveaways]]></title><description><![CDATA[Do you love reading?]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/all-genres-non-fiction-book-giveaways</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/all-genres-non-fiction-book-giveaways</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 10 Nov 2021 14:54:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!d4Ne!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F98c9f17f-31fa-4289-bceb-9d035895bb00_256x256.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you love reading? 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to deal with sibling rivalry and squabbling.]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/how-to-deal-with-sibling-rivalry</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/how-to-deal-with-sibling-rivalry</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 06 Nov 2021 15:23:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!3Xy2!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff159f413-0c11-44c2-b029-7f0d1ea1457c_6000x4000.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!3Xy2!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff159f413-0c11-44c2-b029-7f0d1ea1457c_6000x4000.jpeg" 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9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@blue_jean?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText">Izzy Park</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/YZiaYWh-6Xg?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure></div><p></p><p>If you have children, you've probably had to deal with sibling rivalry and squabbling. Even harmonious sibling relationships may have disagreements and squabbles.</p><p>A more serene family and sibling harmony may be attained with a little understanding and patience. Fighting and rivalry may be considerably reduced when a strong sibling relationship is created early on and children are taught how to manage disagreement with their siblings. </p><p>This extremely crucial family tie may blossom and become strong after children learn to work through their differences. Here are ways on how you can better manage sibling rivalry:</p><p><strong>1. Identify sibling rivalry early on.</strong></p><p>In some instances, parents may not notice the problem till it grows to its full magnitude and becomes a more serious issue. As soon as you observe signs of disagreement and fighting between siblings, take immediate steps and figure out ways on how to deal with it.</p><p><strong>2. Educate your children about the importance of good sibling relationships.</strong></p><p>Make sure that they understand that siblings need each other's support and friendship throughout their lives. A strong sibling relationship during childhood will also be beneficial for them when they reach adulthood because such ties can carry over even into adulthood.</p><p><strong>3. Establish equality among your children.</strong></p><p>This will help them so they can get along well with one another. Try to equitably distribute your time, attention, and love to every child. Treat them as fairly as possible because this will make them their friends instead of enemies.</p><p><strong>4. Make it a point to discipline both parties when you see sibling strife.</strong></p><p>Under such circumstances, believe that both children are partly responsible for the dispute and punish each one fairly based on what they did or who started the fight. Keep in mind that you also need to teach both children how to better handle disagreements with each other at an early age so that they can gain valuable life skills and learn how best to deal with conflicts in the future &#8211; whether these clashes happen between themselves or with others.</p><p><strong>5. Help instill positive feelings among brothers and sisters.</strong></p><p>By getting involved in their activities and interests, they can learn to communicate effectively with each other. Establishing a good rapport among siblings will greatly help them get their feelings out without having to resort to physical confrontation.</p><p><strong>6. Set clear boundaries.</strong></p><p>It is important that every child knows where he stands in relation to his siblings. You also have to define consequences if rules are violated so that he would be aware of the consequences should he not control himself if ever sibling rivalry arises again.</p><p><strong>7. Create a support system such as family counseling.</strong></p><p>This approach can help resolve sibling rivalry early on, so you can teach your children how to deal with disagreements and fighting before it gets out of hand. When prodded by a counselor who's an unbiased third party, children are more likely to talk about their conflicts instead of resorting to physical aggression.</p><p><strong>8. Help your kids build self-esteem.</strong></p><p>A confident child is less likely to feel envious or overprotective against his brother or sister when he has developed adequate coping skills in dealing with these types of emotions.</p><div><hr></div><p>For many children, sibling rivalry can be a lifelong challenge that becomes more difficult to deal with as they grow older.</p><p>Without proper intervention, this problem could even turn into child abuse or adolescent delinquency, so it is important to guide your children through these stages.</p><p>Teaching siblings about the importance of sibling relationships is also an essential part of nurturing good relations among brothers and sisters so they can have a bright future together as friends instead of enemies. </p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Should You Be Worried About Climate Change?]]></title><description><![CDATA[It can be hard to talk about climate change with our kids, but not talking up will make the problem worse.]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/should-you-be-worried-about-climate</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/should-you-be-worried-about-climate</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 30 Oct 2021 11:00:05 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!8dxi!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbfd6f2f5-f70e-45ff-bbc4-ed65ee7a7f48_1880x1253.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!8dxi!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fbfd6f2f5-f70e-45ff-bbc4-ed65ee7a7f48_1880x1253.jpeg" 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9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <strong><a href="https://www.pexels.com/@ron-lach?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels">Ron Lach</a></strong> from <strong><a href="https://www.pexels.com/photo/man-people-woman-flag-9035237/?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels">Pexels</a></strong></figcaption></figure></div><p></p><p>It can be hard to talk about climate change with our kids, but not talking up will make the problem worse. Kids will hear from other people too, so it&#8217;s important that they know what&#8217;s happening in this world outside their bubble of protection.</p><p>The effects of climate change are far-reaching and devastating. It&#8217;s no secret to the general public that our environment is changing at an alarming rate, with many people feeling like they cannot do anything about it. </p><p>The world has already felt its effects on human health, animals&#8217; habitats, and crops, leading to hunger in some areas. It also impacts the health of our oceans that are responsible for absorbing excess carbon dioxide. There is also concern about what this means for future generations if nothing is done, with even more dramatic changes.</p><div><hr></div><h4><strong>How to Talk With Kids About Climate Change</strong></h4><p>Teaching children about such a complicated topic may be challenging for any parent.</p><p>However, you don&#8217;t have to be an expert to talk to your kids about the climate problem, thankfully. Here are five suggestions to get you started.</p><p><strong>1. Teach Kids the Basics</strong></p><p>It&#8217;s essential that children learn about our changing climate at a young age so that they can see its significance right away. In order to be successful communicators for solutions in the future, they need strong foundations. Begin by explaining the fundamentals of the greenhouse effect and what carbon dioxide is. This will help kids understand why we are in this situation and who is in charge of taking action.</p><p><strong>2. Connect Kids to Nature</strong></p><p>Because most kids spend most of their time outside, they must immerse themselves in nature rather than just gazing at attractive photos on social media or watching TV. Encourage children to help you plant flowers, clean up garbage in your area, or even build birdhouses together. These kinds of activities will allow kids to interact with nature while also giving back, which is a great approach to pique the attention of children.</p><p><strong>3. Check Out Climate Change Books Together</strong></p><p>Check out a couple of books about climate change at your local library, bookshop, or even online. You can also create your own tale about renewable energy and how it affects the world. Even reading about climate change to children can help them realize how serious the situation is and why we&#8217;re trying so hard to address it.</p><p><strong>4. Create Climate Change Games</strong></p><p>Kids adore video games, especially ones that focus on their favorite subject: technology. There are already a lot of internet games that teach children about the effects of global warming on our world. You can also build up some entertaining board game challenges that involve protecting animal habitats or planting more trees to prevent global warming. Children will enjoy helping the environment while doing something they already like.</p><p><strong>5. Stay Up-to-Date</strong></p><p>Maintaining your child&#8217;s interest in climate change will enable them to raise awareness among their friends and classmates subsequently. It also doesn&#8217;t hurt to study more about this subject that can be fascinating. So read up with them on all of the wonderful things people are working on to prevent global warming, from renewable energy sources to science-based technologies. These types of tools will keep children interested in an otherwise intimidating subject.</p><div><hr></div><p>These ideas should get you started, but the most important thing is that we develop innovative methods to ensure that our children realize the need for all of us to take action to combat climate change. </p><p>Kids emulate what they see adults do. Therefore, we must lead by example if we want them to grasp the problem and be a part of the solution. This entails not only talking about it but also demonstrating our concern for nature via our actions. </p><p>It&#8217;s always a good idea to talk to your kids about protecting the planet as much as possible, regardless of their age. </p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Anger Management for Parents]]></title><description><![CDATA[How to be more patient with your child]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/how-to-manage-your-anger-with-your</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/how-to-manage-your-anger-with-your</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 23 Oct 2021 19:29:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!d2U9!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2a2268b4-3831-4ca3-ae24-2b73ae327d89_5471x3647.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div 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restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@bruno_nascimento?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText">Bruno Nascimento</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/0bCLKSE1GY8?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure></div><p>The demands of life can make parents feel angry with their children from time to time. It can be very difficult for parents to maintain a loving state of mind towards their children when they become angry and defiant, especially if there has been a long history of such behavior.  </p><p>It is important that you, as a parent, should avoid getting angry as much as possible. A great way to achieve this is through learning the art of patience.</p><p>If your child is not acting out in defiance, then simply continue what you are doing as usual as calmly as possible as if nothing had happened. Perhaps smile at them from time to time and maintain a loving and gentle mindset.</p><div><hr></div><h2><strong>Why do we get angry at our children?&nbsp;</strong></h2><p>When we get angry with our children, it is usually because they have done something that we don't like.</p><p>This can be due to their behavior being irritating, annoying, obnoxious, sneaky, and manipulative, among others. Sometimes it is the result of them having hurt our feelings. Perhaps they have been disrespectful to another family member or you. </p><p>Quite often, something that has made us angry is related to what we have taught them not to do or a rule that we have set.</p><p>In order to not feel this anger when your child acts out in defiance or misbehaves, you must first change your mindset.</p><p>Instead of focusing on what you don't want them doing, simply focus on being happy about how wonderful and respectful they are 99% percent of the time.</p><p>Praise them for their good conduct instead of dwelling on what they have done wrong. Think about all the good they've done from birth up until now.</p><div><hr></div><h2><strong>How can we handle our anger?</strong></h2><p>The most important thing to remember when you feel angry is that anger is an emotion like any other and can be understood as such. This means that you don't need to act out on it by screaming at your child or even by feeling it for too long.</p><p>Here are ways to manage your anger:</p><p>1. Breathe deeply and calmly. Imagine you are inhaling peace and exhaling anger through your pores until the anger slowly dissipates on its own.</p><p>2. Take a break from whatever situation you are in for a few minutes, even if it's only to stand outside the room or go out into the garden for a while without saying anything.</p><p>3. Meditate on your breathing. Focus entirely on each breath that you take and the space of silence between each one. Do this for 10 minutes or more if possible.</p><p>4. If it is necessary, walk away from your child completely until you have calmed down before returning to them. Some parents find it helpful always to keep their mobile phone within reach in case they need someone else to listen to them as well as a picture of their child as a reminder that even when angry, their children are worth loving no matter what.</p><p>5. Go outside and scream into the sky or punch a pillow if you can't do any of the other things mentioned above because screaming helps release anger.</p><p>6. When it comes time for you and your child to talk things out, refer back to all of the good behavior they have done throughout their life up until now. Remind them that everyone has anger issues sometimes but that it's best for everyone involved if they behave in an acceptable way.</p><div><hr></div><p>When it comes to anger, don't take things personally and avoid using physical punishment.</p><p>Instead, focus only on letting your children know that you love them no matter what. This way, they will learn the skills they need for their future by obeying your rules out of respect rather than fear or anger.</p><div><hr></div><p>My friend is offering a free copy of her audiobook about Anger Management for Parents to anyone who isn't yet a member of <strong>Audible</strong>. 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job.]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/how-to-improve-confidence-as-a-parent</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/how-to-improve-confidence-as-a-parent</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 16 Oct 2021 19:00:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4wQQ!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd8b3f772-2fed-4d5a-83aa-86c4dd72ccbb_6000x4000.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4wQQ!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fd8b3f772-2fed-4d5a-83aa-86c4dd72ccbb_6000x4000.jpeg" 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restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <a href="https://www.pexels.com/@gustavo-fring">Gustavo Fring</a> on <a href="https://www.pexels.com/photo/photo-of-mom-and-daughter-hugging-each-other-4149002/">Pexels</a></figcaption></figure></div><p></p><p>Parenting is a challenging job. It requires a lot of patience, understanding, and work.<br>The most important thing in parenting is to raise your children into good individuals who contribute positively to the world. Your parenting style will always have an influence on your child, especially if he or she is going through a tough time.</p><p>Confidence is essential in the parent-child relationship. It's a quality that is fully attainable and can be strengthened through time and effort. When parents lack confidence, not only will they feel insecure in their roles, but they also won't be able to connect with their kids.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>Good thing there are ways to build it up. Here are some ways on how to improve your confidence as a parent:</p><p><strong>1. Be conscious of your own boundaries.</strong></p><p>Being aware of what you can do and staying true to yourself is an excellent way to build up your sense of self. If you feel exhausted, rest. Don't hesitate to tell others when they've stepped over your boundaries either &#8211; make sure everyone's aware of the rules.</p><p><strong>2. Be consistent in discipline.</strong></p><p>When you apply the same set of expectations towards your children, it helps them better understand who you are and what you expect from them. This will give them a clear idea of their roles in the family. Put importance on mutual respect instead of obedience, for this method is more effective in producing positive effects later on in life.</p><p><strong>3. Build a community of support.</strong></p><p>Find like-minded friends and acquaintances who understand your family situation. Having the moral and emotional support of others is an excellent way to feel that you're not alone in parenting. You'll be more confident knowing that there's always someone out there you can count on.</p><p><strong>4. Spend time with your kids.</strong></p><p>When you spend more time with them, they'll appreciate it more and feel happier about their relationship with you. It also ensures that only positive energy flows between the two of you.</p><p><strong>5. Think before acting.</strong></p><p>Not thinking will work against you, especially when unpleasant situations come up unexpectedly. Practice proper decision-making by taking everything into consideration and weighing all the options before coming up with a solution for it. By getting prepared beforehand, you'll be able to better deal with difficult predicaments.</p><p><strong>6. Speak your mind.</strong></p><p>It's alright to voice out what you feel and what you think as long as it is not offensive. If someone tries to make fun of your family or bring them down, don't hesitate to tell them that you will defend them no matter what. Just because you're a parent doesn't mean that your feelings and opinions should be put aside. After all, we're nurturers and leaders by nature. Don't be afraid to speak up for the only person who matters in this world is your child.</p><p><strong>7. Reach out.</strong></p><p>Reaching out can also help build confidence as a parent. You could join parenting communities online where you can freely talk about your parenting issues and problems. It is a good way to meet parents who struggle with the same issues as you.</p><div><hr></div><p>There are a lot of ways to boost your confidence as a parent but the most important thing is that you understand that there's no harm in trying.</p><p>Just remember that your child will love you no matter what because, at the end of the day, it's all about taking care of them and meeting their needs, not about how great you are as a parent.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Amazing Non-Fiction Book Giveaways]]></title><description><![CDATA[Have you ever wanted to read a non-fiction book but didn't know where to start?]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/amazing-monday-book-giveaways</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/amazing-monday-book-giveaways</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 11 Oct 2021 17:30:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!d4Ne!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F98c9f17f-31fa-4289-bceb-9d035895bb00_256x256.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever wanted to read a non-fiction book but didn't know where to start?</p><p>Great news! 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9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@xaviermoutonphotographie?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText">Xavier Mouton Photographie</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com/collections/3984642/moo---parents?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure></div><p>Being a parent isn&#8217;t easy. Everyday struggles with your child can make you feel like giving up at times, but it&#8217;s important to remember that they are going through tough times too and will hopefully grow into better adults as time goes on.</p><p>Positive parenting is an amazing way to bring out your child&#8217;s natural potential. It brings together knowledge and mindset for parents, who then can meet these challenges with positivity in mind &#8211; knowing it will lead them toward a rewarding path.</p><div><hr></div><h2><strong>What is Positive Parenting?</strong></h2><p>Positive parenting is an approach to discipline and guidance that aims to bring out the positive potential in every child to become better adults. Instead of punishing your children or constantly saying &#8220;no,&#8221; you say &#8220;yes&#8221; more often than not, and encourage them with empowering reinforcement.</p><p>It may seem like a walk in the park at first, but it&#8217;s actually very challenging. It requires you to be on your toes constantly, making sure you know what your kids are doing and how it impacts their lives. You must understand that children need not only boundaries but also guidance.</p><p>Positive parenting offers a practical guide for parents around the world. It provides a solid foundation for building healthy relationships with your children with the correct mindset.</p><div><hr></div><h2><strong>What are the Characteristics of Positive Parenting?</strong></h2><p>Being positive as a parent is not as easy as it seems. You must be able to adjust your style and accept that you&#8217;re making mistakes &#8211; it&#8217;s nothing to be ashamed of. We can all slip up from time to time, but we just need to remember that we&#8217;re humans, and we should forgive ourselves.</p><p>Here are some characteristics of positive parenting:</p><p><strong>1. Firmness</strong></p><p>Positive parents will set certain boundaries for their kids, knowing they won&#8217;t always agree with these rules. However, the boundaries don&#8217;t have to be too strict because you also need the flexibility to change them over time if needed. Boundaries may change as your child grows.</p><p><strong>2. Set routines</strong></p><p>Discipline doesn&#8217;t only mean saying &#8220;no&#8221; or imposing consequences on your children. A set of routines can be a great tool for positive parenting, as they allow you to carry out guidelines with your child so you can both benefit from having a more organized day.</p><p><strong>3. Balancing love and support</strong></p><p>It&#8217;s important to balance discipline with understanding the needs of your children. Sometimes being too strict without explanation will cause them to rebel against you or feel insecure about themselves. Open communication is key here. Explaining certain boundaries helps children understand that they&#8217;re not just being told off for no reason whatsoever.</p><p><strong>4. Guidance instead of instruction</strong></p><p>Positive parents will give their kids guidance rather than instructions on how things should be done. By working together in this way, it opens up opportunities for problem-solving and decision-making which lets them know they have value and aren&#8217;t always reliant on you.</p><div><hr></div><h2><strong>What are some techniques for positive parenting?</strong></h2><p>Positive parenting isn&#8217;t just about what you&#8217;re saying, it&#8217;s also how you&#8217;re saying it. You can say the same thing in different ways, which will elicit varying reactions from your kids. For example, if you tell them to go to bed now but yell at them for not listening, they may ignore you the next time you ask them to do something because they know you&#8217;ll be angry or frustrated with them.</p><p>Here are some techniques of positive parenting:</p><p>1. Don&#8217;t put your kids on the defensive. If you find yourself getting angry, take a deep breath and try to understand where they&#8217;re coming from. Remember that although they may be acting in frustrating or annoying ways, it does not mean they don&#8217;t deserve love or attention.</p><p>2. Try to stay calm when giving orders or punishments because kids can sense when you&#8217;re angry or frustrated with them. They will only push your buttons more if you give in to temptation and yell at them rather than using words to resolve the issue calmly.</p><p>3. Be ready to apologize to your child should you lose your temper for any reason. Parents who are able to acknowledge their mistakes and apologize without getting defensive have stronger relationships with their kids.</p><p>4. Ask your children open-ended questions in the place of giving orders like, &#8220;What do you think we should do?&#8221; or &#8220;What would be a better choice of activity?&#8221; This encourages them to think for themselves rather than simply following your instructions, and they&#8217;re more likely to listen to what they say because it came from them instead of you.</p><p>5. Be willing to help when asked and give praise when earned. Helping your children whenever they ask for assistance will make them motivated to come to you when they need help rather than waiting until they have done something wrong before asking for your attention.</p><p>6. Always be positive with your attitude and let kids know when they&#8217;ve done a good job rather than punishing them for doing something wrong or making mistakes.</p><div><hr></div><p>Positive parenting doesn&#8217;t happen overnight &#8211; it&#8217;s a long process that takes time and patience, especially if you&#8217;ve had different approaches with your children in the past.</p><p>It can also be hard to break any negative habits but just keep working at it and you'll find that not only does it work for your family, but you'll enjoy being around your kids more too.  </p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Free Christian Books]]></title><description><![CDATA[Want to read some books for free?]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/free-christian-books</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/free-christian-books</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 05 Oct 2021 19:45:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!d4Ne!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F98c9f17f-31fa-4289-bceb-9d035895bb00_256x256.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Want to read some books for free?</p><p>Reading is a great way to relax, learn new things, and escape the stress of everyday life. 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parenting skills is to practice self-love.]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/benefits-of-self-love-for-parents</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/benefits-of-self-love-for-parents</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 02 Oct 2021 13:49:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!L3Ut!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff46c0a7b-8f17-4da4-86c2-6e7c8e3dc6ba_4928x3264.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!L3Ut!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff46c0a7b-8f17-4da4-86c2-6e7c8e3dc6ba_4928x3264.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!L3Ut!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff46c0a7b-8f17-4da4-86c2-6e7c8e3dc6ba_4928x3264.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!L3Ut!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff46c0a7b-8f17-4da4-86c2-6e7c8e3dc6ba_4928x3264.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!L3Ut!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff46c0a7b-8f17-4da4-86c2-6e7c8e3dc6ba_4928x3264.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!L3Ut!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff46c0a7b-8f17-4da4-86c2-6e7c8e3dc6ba_4928x3264.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!L3Ut!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff46c0a7b-8f17-4da4-86c2-6e7c8e3dc6ba_4928x3264.jpeg" width="1456" height="964" 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https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!L3Ut!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff46c0a7b-8f17-4da4-86c2-6e7c8e3dc6ba_4928x3264.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!L3Ut!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff46c0a7b-8f17-4da4-86c2-6e7c8e3dc6ba_4928x3264.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!L3Ut!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff46c0a7b-8f17-4da4-86c2-6e7c8e3dc6ba_4928x3264.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <a href="https://www.pexels.com/@pixabay">Pixabay</a> on <a href="https://www.pexels.com/photo/silhouette-photo-of-a-mother-carrying-her-baby-at-beach-during-golden-hour-51953/">Pexels</a></figcaption></figure></div><p>One of the finest ways to improve your parenting skills is to practice self-love.</p><p>As a parent, you are frequently confronted with challenging societal expectations that might make you feel inadequate.</p><p>Depression, worry, and loneliness, which are all too common in today's culture, have a negative impact on your ability to be joyously confident or comfortable in your parenting abilities while simultaneously juggling high-achieving work responsibilities.</p><p>Indeed, being a parent is not easy, but practicing self-love can help you overcome challenges and enjoy all of the benefits that come with it.</p><p>Here are major reasons why practicing self-love is valuable for parents like you:</p><p><strong>1. It allows you to appreciate your life as a parent.</strong></p><p>To be honest, if you are constantly berating yourself over parenting, it's easy to become overwhelmed by the magnitude of your task. Due to this weight, you may begin to feel sorry for yourself or even lose your sense of direction in life.</p><p>Self-love, on the other hand, helps parents to enjoy what they have while staying on course. Strength in parenting is vital while coping with difficult times raising children, and it comes with respect for their lives and a sense of balance within oneself.</p><p><strong>2. It keeps you motivated.</strong></p><p>Every parent needs motivation, and with a strong sense of self, it may be simple to keep pushing forward. When you feel like giving up or don't want to do anything at all, the power you've earned by practicing self-love makes it simpler to stick it out.</p><p>This leads to more successful parenting because you stay on track and keep control of your life rather than allowing your children to take charge.</p><p><strong>3. It provides coping mechanisms</strong></p><p>It is easier to find other ways of managing stress and tough situations when you have a strong sense of self, such as sticking to a schedule or even asking for help if you need it. This makes it simpler to cope with difficulties that arise rather than simply giving up when things become tough.</p><p><strong>4. It leads to better family relationships</strong></p><p>Nothing is more frustrating than watching yourself lose control of all you've worked so hard to achieve because you couldn't stop being so harsh on yourself. Parents who have a strong sense of self, on the other hand, might avoid this difficulty by staying in line but still recognizing what is essential in their lives. After all, having your own space is still a part of being a parent, and it guarantees that you aren't just a servant to your kids. </p><p><strong>5. It makes parenting easier&nbsp;</strong></p><p>Finding time for yourself and figuring out what works best for the family as a whole makes parenting simpler. Parents are happy when they love themselves because they discover their own point of balance, which leads to greater long-term results. </p><p><strong>6. It provides relief from stress</strong></p><p>Sometimes all you need is time away from the kids, even if it's just an hour or so where you can enjoy being alone with your thoughts or simply recharge so that life doesn't seem too overwhelming after all.</p><p>Parents start doubting themselves if they let their fears take over, but with self-love comes the ability to keep these anxieties at bay since it's easy to have a strong sense of who you are without being tied down by routine.</p><p><strong>7. It helps balance family dynamics</strong></p><p>Just because you are a parent doesn't mean your needs no longer matter. In fact, staying balanced in all aspects of life is actually more important when you have children. Self-love provides that balance and keeps parents from being overwhelmed or resenting their children when they don't get everything done on a given day.</p><div><hr></div><p>It may appear that there are never enough hours in a day to complete all of your tasks. It's also difficult not to become preoccupied with your children's demands and lose sight of your own.</p><p>However, you can make it easy on yourself if you set out time to focus on self-love each day.</p><p>Remember, when you love yourself, you are setting a positive example for your children that will also help them throughout their lives.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Now Available in Spanish]]></title><description><![CDATA[I'm excited to announce that two of my bestselling books are now available in Spanish.]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/now-available-in-spanish</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/now-available-in-spanish</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 01 Oct 2021 03:03:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!HkTC!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F439dbd4c-67e1-4917-8492-fb7ec4327536_1600x2650.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I'm excited to announce that two of my bestselling books are now available in Spanish.</p><p>I was receiving so many requests from Spanish-speaking parents that I decided to have it translated. </p><p>If you know someone who can benefit from reading my books in Spanish, you're welcome to forward this email.</p><p>Let me know if you need help getting a copy for your friend or family member.</p><p></p><h1><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09FG6DRJX">The Empathic Parent's Guide to Raising a Highly Sensitive Child (Spanish</a>)</h1><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" 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9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p></p><p><br>Thank you and happy parenting!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[7 Characteristics of a Strong-Willed Child]]></title><description><![CDATA[Find out if your child is a strong-willed child.]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/7-characteristics-of-a-strong-willed</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/7-characteristics-of-a-strong-willed</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2021 18:26:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!I97S!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f2b32d5-cf9e-4b59-977d-87f15be16939_5671x3781.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!I97S!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f2b32d5-cf9e-4b59-977d-87f15be16939_5671x3781.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!I97S!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f2b32d5-cf9e-4b59-977d-87f15be16939_5671x3781.jpeg 424w, 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before. Perhaps you even wondered if your own kid fits that description. </p><p>You may be asking yourself: what does it mean to be strong-willed? How can I tell if my child is strong-willed?</p><p>Some children might be stubborn; some may have a high level of self-control and perseverance, while others might not know when to stop. </p><p>There's no way to tell which type your child is just by looking at them, so how can you tell if they're strong-willed?</p><p>Here are some characteristics:</p><p><strong>1. They want to do things their way.</strong></p><p>Strong-willed children are determined, and they'll do whatever is necessary in order to accomplish their goals.&nbsp;They don't like to follow the crowd and often think for themselves.</p><p><strong>2. They're persistent and tenacious.</strong></p><p>When strong-willed kids set their minds on something, they will see it through until the end.&nbsp;It may take a while before the child gives up the fight, but eventually, most children with this trait move on and look for new ways to achieve their goals when one method fails or isn't working properly.</p><p><strong>3. They're rigid in their own values and beliefs.</strong></p><p>When faced with new information that contradicts their current point of view, strong-willed kids will likely keep an open mind. However, if the new information goes against something they firmly believe in or feel comfortable with, they'll shut down and block the new idea from entering their mind altogether. A good way to test this is to share something with your child that you know goes against their current belief system.</p><p><strong>4. They love being around other strong-willed children.</strong></p><p>Strong-willed children tend to gravitate towards each other and choose playmates who share this same trait. They understand each other and don't try to change the other person.</p><p><strong>5. They value their independence.</strong></p><p>Strong-willed children enjoy making their own decision and doing things on their own terms. They dislike having someone else make choices for them.&nbsp;Teaching your child self-sufficiency will help him develop this trait even more and appreciate the time you spend working together as a family.&nbsp;</p><p><strong>6. They speak with confidence (even when they're scared).</strong></p><p>Do you know those videos of kids giving big speeches in front of large audiences? Well, those children almost always have some strong-willed tendencies.&nbsp;Even though they may be nervous inside, they aren't afraid to express their opinions.</p><p><strong>7. They learn from mistakes and try not to make them again.</strong></p><p>Although strong-willed kids can be stubborn, they're good at learning from their mistakes.&nbsp; When they make a bad decision, they use the experience to grow and make better choices in the future.</p><div><hr></div><p>There's no denying that strong-willed children are hard to handle at times. But there are ways to manage them so they learn how to behave without losing themselves in the process.</p><p>Just be patient and understanding and always keep the bigger picture in mind.</p><p>Overall, strong-willed children are simply that: children. They're still learning about the world and how it works, so they'll require assistance in order to learn more effectively.</p><p>Don't get disheartened if your child doesn't see things your way. You can teach them what's right through patience, encouragement, and most importantly, good examples.</p><p>I'll be giving out a free advance reader copy of my new book about strong-willed children soon. So, make sure you're on the lookout for it.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[5 Activities to Calm Your Anxious Child ]]></title><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/5-activities-to-calm-your-anxious</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/5-activities-to-calm-your-anxious</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 18 Sep 2021 15:32:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!d-Za!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4798f8db-edaa-40c2-b78d-fb4903199d9a_3177x4765.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" 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9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <strong><a href="https://www.pexels.com/@keira-burton?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels">Keira Burton</a></strong> from <strong><a href="https://www.pexels.com/photo/loving-mother-comforting-crying-son-on-couch-6624311/?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels">Pexels</a></strong></figcaption></figure></div><p>                                 </p><p>Children are naturally anxious about the world around them, but they can be helped. </p><p>Anxiety in children has been shown to worsen with their short stature and lack of control over what's happening in an environment that may be anxiety-provoking, even for adults.</p><p>Your child may worry excessively if he or she suffers from anxiety. Your child can have panic attacks or refuse to engage in social activities.</p><p>It is a good idea to come up with some calming activities for your kid. Because each child is unique, select activities which are appropriate for them. Here are some suggested activities that you can do with your child:</p><p><strong>1. Have your child draw a picture of his anxious feelings.</strong></p><p>Many children express themselves through drawings. These can help them to put words on the images they see in their mind. It may be helpful for older kids who can write, but younger ones usually prefer drawing. Discuss what is happening with the picture and how to make it better.</p><p><strong>2. Use breathing exercises when your child is feeling anxious.</strong></p><p>Children as young as seven can be taught how to do breathing exercises. Breathing deeply from the diaphragm helps the body relax and sends a signal to your mind that all is well, so it's an ideal way of preventing anxiety attacks before they begin. It takes practice, but you'll see a difference eventually.</p><p><strong>3. Write down what happened the day before and make a diary.</strong></p><p>Many children will be reassured by writing down what happened in their lives, particularly if it was something positive. This helps them to feel safe and secure when the world around them seems chaotic, so it's good for anxious children to do this regularly. Even better, show your child how to keep this journal so that they can use it whenever they want.</p><p><strong>4. Let your child read their favorite book or watch a movie.</strong></p><p>If anxiety makes your child want to be alone, reading together is a good way of being together while still allowing them space if they need it. Similarly, watching his favorite film can be the perfect opportunity for you both to bond over something safe and familiar.</p><p><strong>5. Talk it out with your child using words and ideas that make sense to them.</strong></p><p>Above everything else, your child wants somebody who will listen when they're feeling anxious or upset. Talking to them about the things that frighten them is a good way of relieving stress and giving yourself a chance to identify triggers if necessary.</p><div><hr></div><p>Although it can be challenging to find a way to calm your child, the benefits of doing so will outweigh any difficulties.</p><p>As you participate together in these activities, you will also have the opportunity to bond with your child.</p><p>Likewise, you can learn more about their preferences and interests as well as what they need from the world around them in order to be happy and healthy.</p><p>If you'd like to learn more, I have a book entirely dedicated to raising an anxious child.</p><h3><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B086RPF388">The Empathic Parent&#8217;s Guide to Raising an Anxious Child: How to Help Your Kids Overcome Shyness, Worry, Separation and Social Anxiety</a></h3><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.amazon.com/dp/B086RPF388&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Click 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Finding time to exercise is often one of the most challenging concerns for a parent.</p><p>Having a family can be hard work. It's not just keeping up with your children's daily needs but also balancing that with your own personal life and career.</p><p>As a parent, it is important to stay healthy to keep up with all of these responsibilities. In order to do so, you will need some fast exercises that you can easily fit into your daily grind.&nbsp; Here are some quick routines you can do at home.</p><p><strong>1. The Plank</strong></p><p>Begin by planting your hands directly under your shoulders, extend your legs, and tuck in your toes with your core engaged. Your head must be in line with your back. You want to hold this position for as long as possible&#8212;even if it's only about 30 seconds. Rest and repeat until you have completed at least 3 sets. Remember&#8212;don't let your bum go down. Push it up high to support yourself and keep those heels off the floor. This is the most basic plank, and it&#8217;s best for beginners.</p><p><strong>2. Wall Sit + Knee Tuck</strong></p><p>This is great for encouraging good posture, which can help prevent chronic diseases such as osteoporosis, heart disease, and arthritis. Begin by standing with your back against a wall, heels about 10 cm away from the wall. Then, drop down into a wall sit, keeping your back pressed against the wall. Now, tuck in your knees, so they are almost touching the wall behind you. Hold for 2 seconds before returning them to the starting position. Repeat this for 10 reps, 3 times.</p><p><strong>3. Squats</strong></p><p>Stand with feet hip-width apart, then squat down until your thighs are parallel to the floor or as low as you can. Keep that tummy tucked in and make sure you don't lean forward. Hold it there for 5 seconds before returning to a standing position. If possible, keep those heels on the floor. If you can't, try doing them on a Pilates block. Try to do 10 squats for 3 sets. Count how many it takes for your thighs to burn.</p><p><strong>4. Leg Extensions</strong></p><p>Lie on your back on a hard surface, with legs extended out. Bring one leg up at a time and hold the backs of the knees with both hands. Try not to grip too tightly. Then, extend that leg upwards as high as you comfortably can. Hold this position for 2 seconds before returning the foot to starting position. Repeat this 8 times on each side and do 3 sets. Remember to keep those tummies tucked in.</p><p><strong>5. The Trunk Twist</strong></p><p>This is important in keeping good posture and preventing back pain. We often think our bodies are moving in straight lines when we are, in fact, curving or twisting away from that line. Lie on your back with your hands behind your head. Now, focus on keeping that tummy tucked and lift and twist your legs to one side&#8212;hold for a few seconds. Then, return to the starting position before repeating on the other side. Try and do 10 each of these 3 times.</p><p><strong>6. The Hamstring Curl</strong></p><p>This is another effective lower body exercise that you can easily do at home without any equipment. Begin by lying flat on your stomach so that your legs are extended out behind you, with feet together. Then, simply curl the toes under, which will engage your hamstrings. You could also try this one with heels together and close to your bottom. Hold for 2 seconds before returning the feet flat on the floor again. Do 8 of these 3 times.</p><p><strong>7. Side Plank</strong></p><p>This is a great exercise to tone your sides and &#8220;suck in that tummy.&#8221; Begin by lying on your side with feet together, then prop yourself up into a side plank position by resting on one forearm. Make sure you support all of your weight&#8212;don't let the bottom half of your body sag towards the floor. Now, simply balance for 30 seconds before repeating on the other side. Try and complete 3 sets of this.</p><div><hr></div><p>In all of your daily hustle and bustle as a parent, it's easy to forget about the importance of exercise. But for the sake of your health and well-being, be sure to include some of these fast exercise routines.</p><p>You may feel like you don't have enough time or that several other things are going on when trying to balance parenting with work and household tasks. However, making an effort will benefit both you and your family in the long run.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[5 Tricks to Get Your Kids to Eat Vegetables]]></title><description><![CDATA[Children are notoriously picky eaters, and veggies are usually not on their list of favorites.]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/5-tricks-to-get-your-kids-to-eat</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/5-tricks-to-get-your-kids-to-eat</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 05 Sep 2021 02:17:20 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!moKk!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F96912c56-aec7-408d-b8ad-89781162957e_4160x6240.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" 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restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@derekowensheart?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText">Derek Owens</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com/s/photos/children-eating?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure></div><p></p><p>Children are notoriously picky eaters, and veggies are usually not on their list of favorites. Some kids are only interested in chicken nuggets, macaroni and cheese, peanut butter sandwiches, and pizza.</p><p>Parents have struggled to encourage their kids to eat vegetables for years and still come up on the losing side.</p><p>But how can parents deal with this problem? There are tricks to getting kids to eat veggies, and it's not as hard as you may think.</p><p>Here are some easy but effective ways that parents can get their children to eat vegetables.</p><p><strong>1. Make veggies fun.</strong></p><p>If your child doesn't like carrots, you can try using a peeler to cut them into ribbon shapes and then dip the "ribbons" in some ranch dressing. Presentation is key. One way to make healthy food more appealing is by serving it in an interesting manner, such as cutting up colorful vegetables into interesting shapes.</p><p><strong>2. Try hiding veggies in your kid&#8217;s favorite food.</strong></p><p>You can try sneaking vegetables into your kid&#8217;s favorite dishes that contain other ingredients. For example, if you make tacos, you can grate some carrots into the cheese. Your kid won't know what hit him when he takes a bite of his taco.</p><p><strong>3. Use dips to get kids excited about eating veggies.</strong></p><p>Kids love dipping their food into something before taking a bite out of it. Dips can be a great way to add flavor and interest to vegetables. Try adding yogurt, hummus, or even pureed beans to plain vegetables for an extra flavor punch.&nbsp;</p><p><strong>4. Make veggie smoothies.</strong></p><p>Trying to get your child to eat vegetables in liquid form is a great way to trick him into eating them if he's a very picky eater. Making veggies into tasty smoothies that can be gulped down quickly is an excellent idea. Kids will never even know they're drinking up all that fruit and vegetable goodness.</p><p><strong>5. Let kids help pick out the vegetables at the store.</strong></p><p>Finally, one last way for parents to use is by letting their children help pick out the vegetables when they're grocery shopping together. Some children might be more inclined to try things if they had a say in buying them. So let them pick out their own vegetables in the produce section.</p><div><hr></div><p>It's no secret that getting kids to eat vegetables can be difficult. But with a little bit of creativity and ingenuity, you can easily make them eat their greens.</p><p>The key is finding the strategy that works best for your children and using it consistently over time.</p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Homeschooling Tips for Parents]]></title><description><![CDATA[Many parents are finding themselves managing their children's virtual and home-based education.]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/homeschooling-tips-for-parents</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/homeschooling-tips-for-parents</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2021 03:09:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!w3mY!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F937aba6c-be3f-4e72-9116-917b650bfa97_4608x3072.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!w3mY!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F937aba6c-be3f-4e72-9116-917b650bfa97_4608x3072.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!w3mY!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F937aba6c-be3f-4e72-9116-917b650bfa97_4608x3072.jpeg 424w, 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href="https://unsplash.com/s/photos/homeschool?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure></div><p>Many parents are finding themselves managing their children's virtual and home-based education.</p><p>Despite the many benefits of homeschooling, at-home learning can be challenging for both parents and students alike because it is more difficult to keep track of progress due to the lack of reporting tools like those in a classroom setting.</p><p>It can also be difficult to establish order and structure in a home-learning environment. This may lead students to get frustrated, and they may fall behind on the learning objectives and assignments. Moreover, your child's curriculum has a lot of changing components, which make things much more difficult if you have many kids.</p><p>So, how can parents, especially beginners, help their children stay on track and deal with the intricacies of online and home-based learning?</p><p>Here are eight suggestions to help you keep your children&#8217;s homeschool learning environment well-organized and efficient:</p><p><strong>1. Establish a Homeschool Schedule and Stick to it</strong></p><p>Establish a schedule for all of your students, and stick to it. Even if you only have one homeschool student, creating a set routine for the school day will help everyone stay on task and follow through with assignments. If possible, try to accommodate each child's unique learning style by adjusting your daily schedule accordingly.</p><p><strong>2. Use Homeschool Software Tools</strong></p><p>One way to ease some of the challenges experienced with home-based education is by using software tools specially designed for online learning environments. Letting go of extraneous paperwork can help free up time so that you are able to focus more on the needs of your students.</p><p><strong>3. Don't Overwhelm Them with Information</strong></p><p>When teaching a subject like math, it's tempting to try and cover all of your child's homework at once. However, doing this for each subject daily will burn you out very quickly. Try to focus on each subject one at a time and give your child enough time to digest the new information before moving into something else.</p><p><strong>4. Create a Homework Grouping System</strong></p><p>If you have more than one homeschool student, then it is essential to develop a system for group work so that everyone can stand to benefit from the experience. Kids are still children, and they need adult supervision if they're going to learn anything from assignments.</p><p><strong>5. Find Opportunities for Field Trips</strong></p><p>The more hands-on experience your kids get with their studies, the better. Taking field trips is one great way to achieve this goal. Providing your children with extra opportunities for exploration and enrichment will keep them interested in learning and motivated to achieve success. If you have a science-minded child, take them on nature walks or visit museums that support their interests. For those who are gifted in the arts, provide visual art lessons by taking field trips to local artists' studios or galleries.</p><p><strong>6. Set Aside Time for "Me-Time"</strong></p><p>As the adult responsible for guiding the learning experience, it is also imperative that you maintain your own well-being. If you're struggling with stress or burnout, it can have a negative effect on how well you can teach your children and provide them with the attention they crave in order to excel academically. Make sure that you regularly take the time out of your schedule to rest, relax, and do things that make you feel good.</p><p><strong>7. Don't Be Afraid to Experiment with New Approaches</strong></p><p>There's no "right" way to homeschool kids, so don't be afraid of trying new things as long as you're not straying too far from what will help them learn effectively. If all else fails, then scrap whatever approach you were using and try something completely different until something clicks. Sometimes, we assume that a certain technique or strategy is going to work on its own without giving it a decent chance.</p><p><strong>8. Be an Active Role Model for Your Kids</strong></p><p>If there's one thing we've all heard before, it's that you should lead by example. This holds true when it comes to educating your children in the learning process. When they see you getting excited about new projects and always trying to expand your horizons, they'll be much more likely to follow in your footsteps.</p><div><hr></div><p>There are many challenges that come with homeschooling your children. But if you have the right tools and resources, it can be a very rewarding experience for both parents and students alike.</p><p>These suggestions will make life easier not only for yourself but also for your student to stay on track and successfully deal with the challenges of home school.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Free Life-Changing Books]]></title><description><![CDATA[Reading is a habit that many people neglect, but it&#8217;s important for maintaining a healthy lifestyle.]]></description><link>https://www.freedameighan.com/p/free-life-changing-books</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.freedameighan.com/p/free-life-changing-books</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Freeda Meighan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2021 19:00:40 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!d4Ne!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F98c9f17f-31fa-4289-bceb-9d035895bb00_256x256.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reading is a habit that many people neglect, but it&#8217;s important for maintaining a healthy lifestyle. </p><p>Reading books not only helps you develop new knowledge, but it also aids in improving your mental well-being by giving you the chance to escape into another world for a little while. Plus, reading books can be a great way to relax in the evenings or during lunch breaks. </p><h1><a href="https://books.bookfunnel.com/p31virtues/okosqq780u">Download 20+ Life-changing Books for FREE</a></h1><p></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!PaJN!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F073acc1d-ae8a-474d-8d19-c6804e986b74_845x210.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!PaJN!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F073acc1d-ae8a-474d-8d19-c6804e986b74_845x210.png 424w, 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It can be tricky if you don't know how to keep your children entertained while you're on that conference call or answering emails. I&#8217;ve come up with some helpful tips for keeping your little ones happy while still getting work done at the same time. These ideas will help make life easier for both parents and children alike.</p><h2>Set up a designated area for them to play.</h2><p>This is easier than it sounds. Put a few toys in one room and designate that as the playroom. Make sure it's an area that you can easily see from your work desk.</p><h2>Give them educational games.</h2><p>One way to keep your kids entertained is by playing games. They are fun and teach kids about letters, numbers, shapes, and colors. Informative games are also a great way to teach about certain subjects, such as science or math. </p><h2>Help them be creative.</h2><p>Something else that will amuse children is an art project. If you have some clay or paint, they'll be occupied for hours on end. Have them draw pictures, too. There are so many activities that will keep them happy all day long.</p><h2>Allow them to play with pets.</h2><p>They can also play with pets. Pets can be a great source of company, and they will provide your children with some exercise.  Pets can also help to teach children responsibility.</p><h2>Let them tidy up their play area or bedroom.</h2><p>Another way to keep children occupied is to let them tidy up their play area or bedroom. When they're done with that, there will be no more mess in their room and the toys will be put away. This can also help with other chores around the house.</p><div><hr></div><p>These simple tips are great to keep your children busy for a while and they will also allow them to learn at the same time. Make sure that the games are age-appropriate and safe. If they're too easy or too difficult, they won't be as entertaining. </p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>